Sex is Everywhere


I had fun finding sacred and secular images of sex and fertility all throughout Europe.  Above: statue of Venus experiencing pleasure in L' Acadamie D'Art Museum, down the hall from the David.    Below:  1.

Sex is Everywhere2017-07-10T21:32:24-04:00

Improving Your Sex Life


There are a few very important issues that must be addressed when trying to improve one's sex life.   These are concerns that seem very simple, but may need some support with counseling, and definitely require involvement with

Improving Your Sex Life2017-04-21T12:05:34-04:00

Valentine’s Day


Valentine's Day can be a source of angst for lots of people whether in a relationship or not.  There can be a lot of unnecessary pressure to give gifts, plan special dates or meals, and maybe

Valentine’s Day2017-04-21T11:57:59-04:00

Sex Be Not Proud


Isn't sex supposed to be perfect?  Fun?  Easy?  Feel, smell and sound amazing?  Just like in the movies?  Where everything goes amazingly well?  Hahahahahaha!  Yeah right! What about when your sweaty bodies make a sucking sound when

Sex Be Not Proud2016-12-13T13:14:25-04:00

Sexual Counseling Files


So many people believe that the only measure of a good sex life is how often it occurs.  The number of times per day/week/month/year is all they notice.  But so many couples are out there

Sexual Counseling Files2016-11-28T18:39:17-04:00

The Young and Marrieds


I see many young couples concerned about lower desire and less frequency of their sexual encounters. They are frustrated, angry and incredulous that their previous fun and freedom is now curtailed by the heavy responsibilities

The Young and Marrieds2016-11-28T18:39:17-04:00



There is a point which needs stating: that adult women of any age and size can still turn heads in public if they feel comfortable in their own sexuality to reveal a little more of




I am asked all the time how to help bring back some excitement in a long term relationship. Most people assume they are simply asking about a new technique or a novel position. While those


The Male Factor


To my lesbian and trans patients, I apologize for the concentration on the male partner, but there is much that needs to be said about them in the context of a relationship. I hope there

The Male Factor2016-11-28T18:39:18-04:00

Men are Dogs, Women are Cats


The accuracy of this little quip is very insightful comparing men to puppies in that they need very pointed, direct, clear communications from us on what we want them to do. They are not mind

Men are Dogs, Women are Cats2016-11-28T18:39:18-04:00